what others judge

when i was told we choose how we see people...
i never truly understand what it mean , till today...

the whole world ("literally") was judgemental

against the person whom i care & love for the most ...
and the feeling i got after hearing their comments...was yucky...
i felt yucky was not cos i agree with them
but instead it was the exact oppposite ,

i DO NOT agree with them at all....
i have one in a million thoughts which i wanted to tell the whole world...
but my main was to just tell them to SHUT UP and stop Judging ...
who are they to judge when....
they dun even know..all they have seen are superficial...

i felt bad suddenly...

cos sometimes i am like that too...

judge without thinking

All spiritual teachings encourage us to give thanks.

But i am guilty of not doing the above ...

but i now learnt that one should be focusing

on all the things we adore about the people...
before they're gone..
a sense of gratitude and inner knowing that life will bless you,
are more important than anything...
fore as we express gratitude for what we have,
we will feel richer and so more comes our way.

Today i learn...
We chose how we see people.
When we want to like someone, we can be tolerant.
When we want to be irriated by people, we focus on their faults.
its not other people's behaviour that determines how we feel about them
Its our attitude
People who concentrate on the negatives

usually defend themselves by saying "I'm just realistic'
But the fact is they are creating their reality.